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In our more conventional life...
We used to say that in our more conventional life, Anastas was a psychological counselor with a Ph.D. in Psychology, a massage therapist and a hypnotherapist, while Steven was an alternative health care doctor and life extension specialist in a clinic called The Optimum Health and Chiropractic Center in the beautiful, little coastal city of Encinitas. However, we are happy to report that our conventional life has all but faded away... Anastas is working full time as a Tantric coach and workshop leader. Stteven now works as a developer of sexual and health products.  He also works as a Tantric coach ans workshop leader.

Three transformative strands of our love...
More importantly, our home is the place in which we give full vent to the intense and magical love we have for each other – a love that is in the process of healing our wounds and expanding our consciousness. There are three strands to it’s healing and transformative power.

Devotion and Adoration for each other...
The first strand is the profound level of understanding, nurturing, cherishing, and desire we have for each other. We both want and need someone to absolutely love and adore us and are well able to provide this blessing. The gift we gave each other was to come together and give and get exactly what we needed – even to providing the perfect fodder for each other’s unfinished childhood stuff. Yes, we do go at it with each other, just like the rest of you. Thus so today. Who knows, tomorrow. We are working on it.

Polyamory calling forth a higher love...
Along the path of our open relationship, we weaved the second strand - the higher consciousness attributes that our highly enjoyable and uplifting poyamorous relationship necessitated our evolving. We learned to be in a place of compursion (your joy is my joy) with each other, and to recognize the God/Goddess in lovers who made it easy for us to give them that recognition. Our lovers became our best friends and we shared each others’ lover’s - whether we had sex with them or not. (Hey, I thought we were each other’s best friend. Well, there must be superlative dimensions of best friend and we are at the peak of the best friend list. That sounds good.)

Tantra and interconnected beings of light...
The third strand is that of Tantra. Tantra brought us more deeply than we would have gone into the sacred heart space and has enabled us to say, after fifteen years of every night sleeping side by side, that sex now is the best ever. It was always so outstanding that we thought it was the best ever – but never like now. We have shared Tantric memories that bind us in great love. We will share these memories in the Tantric Peak Experiences section of this web page. The bottom line though is that through Tantra we move deeply and regularly in the subtle energy dimension of existence and experience ourselves as interconnected beings of light To experience ourselves as radiant spiritual beings in ecstatic sexual bodies has been a quantum leap beyond any lesser experience. It is one thing to talk about the union of the sexual and the spiritual. It is quite another to experience it over and over again. The experience changes you. The talk does not.

Healing our Sexual Wounds through Tantra...
Tantra changed my sexuality in another, more down to earth sense. It healed my sexual wounds. I didn’t realize that I had sexual wounds until they were well on the way to being healed. It took me out of fantasizing and out a hidden masochistic streak in my nature. It took me into my senses and my body. It silenced my mind. It attuned me to energy. It taught me to experience vortices of light in my body and to over-lap those vortices of light both within my body and with vortices of light in Steven’s body. What I learned Steven learned.

An extraordinary Giver and an extraordinary Receiver...
Steven, an extraordinary giver, was also my teacher and my healer – as much so as Tantra. His exceptional sensitivity, his ability to touch so exquisitely that I was not ever tempted to be in my mind, his incredible ability to run energy – his and mine, these things helped me move into Tantra on a level that I had not imagined possible when first I walked the Tantric path. My receptivity taught him a great deal about how to touch and move energy. Through his experience with me he was able to fine hone his skills.. He began to understand the depths to which receptivity could go and to become more receptive himself. So I too am his teacher and healer. That we have not yet fulfilled our potential is a fact that gives us much joy. Our story is the story of an extraordinary giver and an extraordinary receiver and how they are self-actualizing and experiencing spiritual transformation through the process of learning each other’s role.