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What Is A
Tantric Couple?

 

Tantra is a way of life, a way of love, and a practice of sacred sexuality.
A Tantric couple, in the truest sense, walks this three forked path of Tantra. Not necessarily all the time, but their beings are oriented
in these three directions of Tantra and they consistently edge their
way deeper and deeper into its folds. This three forked path
unfolds in different ways for each.

 

Attributes of the Tantric Couple...
A Tantric Couple is a couple that is described by a large number of the criteria listed below. A Tantrically inclined couple is a couple that finds this way of being attractive and chooses to move in this direction.

•Is in the process of creating a conscious relationship, that is
guided by Tantric spirituality and sex.

•Has opened themselves to the experience of Tantra through the books they have read, the workshops they have attended, or the relationships they have had with partner’s with whom they have practiced Tantra, or who would like to open themselves to such experiences.

• Attracted to the idea of going deep in relationship

• Honors the divinity in their partner and expects their partner to likewise honor their own divinity.

• Has the capacity and creates the time and space to move into the sacred heart space with their partner – a space characterized by profound love and appreciation, deep honoring and cherishing, and soul connection.

• Is open to a rich, intense sensual experience of life – be it an experience of nature, art, music, food, scent, or sex.

• Seeks to be, as much as possible, in “the now”: fully present in their senses – sight, sound, taste, touch - to all of their experiences.

• Is on a spiritual path, seeking to experience the spiritual dimension of existence and to evolve to the highest state of consciousness they are capable of.

• Embraces their sexuality as a good in their life – enjoying its many faces – be they that of Tantric divinity, the wild man/woman, the playful child, the erotic, lustful, wanton lover, etc.

• Is particularly attracted to exploring their sexual energy as a pathway for experiencing the divinity in themselves and each other and their union with the whole.

• Participates in Tantric practices with their lover, using breath, attention and movement to direct sexual energy to different places in their body and in their lover’s body, and to connect their sexual energies with the spiritual center.

• Is working on giving up attachment to how they want things to be and seeking to surrender and experience the blessing of how things are.

• Is goal-less is the sexual present, forgoing any striving for the big “O” and focusing on the pleasurable sensations in the "now".

•View their relationship as a path of spiritual evolution, which means changing oursleves and helping our partner to change.

• Go deep into themselves and dual with their own psychological demons – instead of blaming their partner for everything and judging and criticizing them.

• Partners look at what is missing in themselves that creates them reacting the way they do to their partner and work on inner change.

• Partners look at what is missing in their partner that pushes their buttons and find respectful, intiamte and harmonic ways of sharing this with them.

• Has learned or is learning, the exquisite pleasures of slow, light, nerve tingling, Tantric Touch.

• Wants to extend the time in which they can adore each other and experience their passionate and ecstatic connection in mystic sex and so choose to move in the direction of ejaculation mastery for the man.




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